Archive for February, 2007

23
Feb

wake up call on sex.

yeah some of you might have read this post on the bulletin board before but since there are some people who specially requested for this so-called edited article.. i searched and managed to track it back. enjoy reading =)

Girl, 14, curious about sex and jumps into the sack with beloved boyfriend. By 15, she already had 3 abortions.

Sounds familiar? Its what that has been commonly happening in our society these days.

Teen sex, teen pregnancies, abortions, broken families… we see them everyday in the papers.

Am pretty sure almost everyone knows about sex, tho many do not talk about them.

Why? Break the taboo. Its not doing the society any good by keeping silent. People are starting sex way too young. 15 to 17 and they already had a few sex partners before. Curious being the reason and when they got the ball rolling, they just can’t stop it. More often than not, theres no precautions taken. Teens get caught in the moment, couldnt control themselves and ended up having sex with their partners. They couldnt care less about forming a baby in the process.

"U’re pregnant?? Just go to the clinic and get an abortion.. I’ll pay for u."

Thats how usually IT will be settled.

Ignorant of the harm the operation pose to their body, ignorant of the innocent life they just ended for the sake of their selfishness. With money? The problem is settled! TOTAL IGNORANCE. Its amazing how somes can just brush off their pregnancy and abort like it never bothered them at all. Even worse, they never learn their lesson and continue having unsafe sex as if nothing happened before. What has happened to our young boys and girls? Social problems are on an alarming rise. Sex education in school has not given any much of impact.

"Heck, everybodys doing it! I dont wana be laughed at for still being a virgin by graduation.. So I’ll have to do it!"

That clearly shows how STUPID a person is!

But yeah, scenarios like this do happen. ‘Losing your virginity by high school makes u cool.’ Thats what some INSANELY smart-arses think. Hey, why dont u bang your head against the wall and then have it stitched? That’ll make u look cool too, having scars and stitches. Your bloody friends surely will worship u.

Did I mention that its also ultra idiotic?

These kids wanna have sex for the fun of it, never thought of the consequences, not even the cost. And a sad true fact; teenagers are becoming more open-minded about sexuality. Yeah there are the goods and bads. But the bad is, they are NOT SHY TO ASK SEX from partners, but THEY ARE TOO SHY TO BUY CONDOMs.

Words for such ignorant immature couples like this would definately be: COWARDS. WIMPS. SELFISH SELF-CENTRED mustards.

If u want to have sex, be prepared to be responsible. Getting pregnant and aborting the baby is soooo fuckin not the solution! You’re not prepared for all of these? DONT DO IT. If you’re darn DESPERATE? MASTURBATE YOUR PATHETIC SELF.

For lame situation such as: "Oh, my boyfriend says that if I love him, I’d have sex with him. Besides, we both will get the pleasure." BANG YOU GIRLs HEADS ON THE GROUND. Stand up and BE BRAVE. LEARN TO SAY NO.

Virginity is priceless. Its not just about enjoying, losing yourself in the spur of the moment. Love yourself. A guy who says SUCH to you, clearly has no love for you! A man who truly loves you would never say that!

If you still think you can handle sex, be responsible for your own act. This is sad but if you cant control yourself, the best is GET A CONDOM. Remember, nobody is stopping you from having sex..

Next time you see a baby, before you go gushing: "OMG the baby is so cute! So sweet and bla bla blah..", think of the little ones that have been rejected by the useless, cruel, meanie irresponsible parents before having the chance to breathe in this world. A life is formed and destroyed due to the selfishness of these peoples.

The babies did nothing wrong to be punished in such manner. The ones in the wrong are YOU. If you’re in agreement and are not afraid nor ashamed to voice out, wake up these peoples, SPREAD THE WORD. Knock some sense into the minds of today teens.

# edited by elocin.

20
Feb

once again.

ah finally i can sit back and relax surfing the net up to wee hours.

so far, hows everyone’s chinese new year? manage to collect a bundle of ang paos i guess. haha. anyway, as usual i was back in Ipoh for a couple of days. this year is pretty quiet down there. somehow me and mum manage to escape and returned to Melaka by the second day of lunar calendar. even my grams open house isnt that big this year. wonder whats up with the PIG year? everything and everyone seems.. kinda-sorta down..?

ahhh.. i just got my heart broken once again. after such a long time, i actually feel the pain in my heart again. tho i dont exactly know how could i be feeling such towards someone who.. well, i dont know how to put in words. all i know is.. i frigging dislike; or should i say HATE? liars. lies lies lies. damnit. cant we all just live peacefully on earth without lies?? i mean, small white lies wouldnt harm but not to lie for the sake of lying without any good. urgh. no wonder it has been so.. and i mean so damn bloooody hard for someone like me to trust a… guy.

*cough cough* except certain SPECIAL ones. hahaha. i bet they’re laughing out loud with a big wide cheeky grins while reading.

anyways.. wishing all Chinese a very Happy and Prosperity Chinese New Year and to others; happy collecting ang paos eh? haha.

till then.

ps: i still neeeeeeed… a holiday.

12
Feb

ijc. shame to know.

life has been pretty much interesting. questions are still questions.. just probably the somes that are left with blurry answers and certain answers at times turns out way beyond what the great mind thinks. anyway, lets just keep it there.

for this entry, i’ve something to express about. and it is mainly to all fellow infant jesus convent students (currently or has left). have you guys saw the 2006 mag? i sure need to comment on something i dont feel satisfied about. not exactly comment, nor am i not satisfied. ahh.. i cant seem to find the right word. i never knew such a person who would be such a big hypocrite just to probably win the hearts or should i say gain the attention of ijc’s teachers..? you wont exactly know what i mean until you’ve checked out the mag of a VERY interesting article where the writer critics the behaviours of her own friends (in ijc) for stating how much they dislike the school publicly. first of all, who does she think she is to judge? well, i admit my english aint good. unlike that writer who proudly speaks english fluently but sad to say; she doesnt know how to use her brains to think real hard before deciding to write such stuff which doesnt only show how immature she is, but clearly how silly she is. i dont think she reads my blog but to any of those who views this entry and reports to her.. where with no doubts of mine; she would probably make such a big fuss over it, two words from me; GO AHEAD.

i dont exactly know why am i this mad cos tho am not one of them who states in anywhere of how much i dislike the school (not saying i dislike) but i understand why some people could actually type out those words of the very wonderful school. yet it just feels like that hypocrite are stabbing the backs of her own sisters. yeah us fellow ijc sisters. damn. why is there ever such people in this world? oh yeah.. to balance the good and bad on earth.

out of words.

till then.